How These Conversations Roll
Call it 'incidental learning:' so much of the important stuff happens on the job or in intimate encounters with bosses, friends, and lovers. There is "the topic" and the places the conversations drift off into. Lived experiences, processed in vulnerable conversations, might seem too personal. But as with all of life, what is radically unique to our own humanity is universal.
If we risk revealing who we are, we will reap the reward of finding the person we want to be. During these chats, we will share some pretty personal and vulnerable stories in the hope that you will take the risk of finding conversation partners like us with whom you can be real. Neither of us has THE ANSWER, but we have questions, beliefs, mistakes, and lessons learned that have helped us on our journey.
There is no perfect world out there, just a better one if we are willing to risk more to learn more. Tom Peters once wrote, "If you want to be an elephant, you will eat like an elephant and s---- like an elephant; that is the only way to grow as big as an elephant."